Thursday 2 November 2023

The Princess Praises "the Role Dads Are Playing Raising Kids" with Dadvengers

The Princess of Wales kicked off her November schedule with an autumnal walk with members of Dadvengers, a community for dads and children, followed by a sit-down chat at the Arnos Arms pub in London.

The Waleses have reportedly spent the past fortnight ensconced at their Norfolk home, Anmer Hall. It's entirely possible they enjoyed a trip abroad under the radar - something they've been able to successfully do before - including an autumn trip to Jordan where Kate retraced steps from her own childhood in 2021. We only learned about the holiday when an image of the family of five was selected for their Christmas card.

Speaking of the festive season...(It's not too early, is it? :)) I adored seeing the festive, sparkly lights in the background of today's images.

It's not only my favourite time of year, it's always a highlight in royal watching, as we tend to see a flurry of seasonal events and evening appearances. We've only had one gown appearance from the Princess this year at the BAFTAs. I think you'll agree, a couple of evening events for November would be very much on our collective wishlist. South Korean President Yoon Suk Yeol and his wife Kim Keon Hee are making a State Visit to the UK later this month. It should offer the ideal setting for a white-tie appearance for Kate. Meanwhile, there's an abundance of overseas travel underway. King Charles and Queen Camilla are presently in the midst of a tour of Kenya; the Duchess of Edinburgh is spending almost a week in Canada; and on Sunday Prince William will depart for several days of engagements in Singapore celebrating the inaugural Earthshot Week. Kate will not accompany him, as it's understood Prince George has an Eton entrance exam.


I was hoping we would see a couple of engagements before William heads to Singapore and was very interested to learn about Dadvengers. Described as "predominately an online community", it works to support dads on their journey through parenthood. The community has a strong focus on mental wellbeing and supports new fathers in a variety of ways including through online training programmes, podcasts, and more recently the in-person ‘Dad Walks’. Dad Walks provide a new way for men to meet other fathers in their local community in an informal setting.

Kate joined the 'Dadvengers' on a 'Dad Walk' at a local park today and heard about the network of support provided. She was joined by DJ and songwriter, Jax Jones, who is one of the Shaping Us campaign champions.

A beautiful image of Kate and three-year-old Maya Sanmuganathan.

Hello! reports:

'As the children played in the playground, Kate was seen crouching down to speak with one little girl, who was wearing a floral raincoat and wellington boots.

"I love your stripy tights," the Princess told the youngster, "I should have worn my stripy tights."

Kate was hosted by Nigel Clarke, the founder of Dadvengers and known for his work on The Baby Club on the BBC’s CBeebies, who said: “Fathers have a hugely significant role to play in their children’s lives, right from the start. Even before their baby is born, fathers can get involved and Dadvengers is on a mission to support them to do that in ways that work for them. “We provide them with information and advice to help look after their own wellbeing, while also supporting them to build the nurturing relationships and surroundings we know are so important in the very earliest years of their children’s lives. It's what Dadvengers is all about.”

Kensington Palace said: "As highlighted in the Shaping Us campaign which the Princess launched in January, our relationships, experiences, and surroundings in our earliest years lay the foundations that shape the rest of our lives. Providing strong support for parents and carers during these years to give the sort of nurturing care which is so important to babies and very young children is essential and can have a life-changing impact on the children they are caring for".

A Palace statement continued: "Fathers, like any other caregivers, play a vital role in the social and emotional development of a child.  However, the Royal Foundation Centre for Early Childhood annual public perception survey, which was published earlier this year, found that men are significantly less aware than women of the extraordinary impact of the first five years of a child’s life."

People reports:

'Inside the Arnos Arms pub, Princess Kate chatted with the dads about the program.

"I think the thing is raising the importance of family time and the role dads are playing in raising kids," she said, according to Hello! magazine. "Through what you guys are doing, the kids are seeing the importance of socializing and getting together."

Kate also agreed with a father who said that moms and dads shouldn't have separate responsibilities, saying, "It's shared."

Afterwards founder Nigel Clarke told Hello!, "They were amazed she's taken the time to come and visit a group like this," he said. We discussed how it’s important to have groups and spaces like this. Dads are worried they're going to feel awkward, but in a space like this, they relax and open up".

Another lovely photo from the engagement.

The Princess opted for familiar causal pieces today.

Kate wore her Barbour x Alexa Chung Edith Jacket. Described as: "Made in England from glossy waxed-cotton, this 'Edith' jacket is detailed with all the signature details including multiple pockets, a soft corduroy collar and classic checked lining." We've seen the Princess wearing the piece on several occasions in recent years.

Kate wore her stripe Erdem Lotus sweater.

Kate sported her MOTHER Dazzler mid-rise jeans. They are in stock at Net-A-Porter and Nordstrom.

It very much appears Kate's new chocolate brown boots are the Reiss Thea style. With thanks to Middleton Maven for the swift ID.

And her Daniella Draper Cupid hoops.

We'll see William and Kate in Scotland for engagements focused on supporting rural communities tomorrow. I'll see you then!

20 comments:

  1. Lovely outing! Wonderful to see all the dads :) solid outfit and she looks full of joy. Thanks Charlotte! Sue from IL

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  2. A very nice visit today highlighting the importance of fathers in a child’s life and by sharing parenting duties. I do wonder why W wasn’t there instead or with K?? Nice outfit today although the color of the jacket is a bit “meh” and I think a more green vs brown color would look much better.

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    1. Great to see the Princess back at work. I had to laugh, Prince William handing out medals at the palace while the Princess headed to the pub with a group of Dads. She looked great today and she really is in her element around children. This was a fantastic cause to highlight. Some young Fathers might not have other Dad's in their family or friends, others could be new to the area and glad of the support. It will be nice to see them return to Scotland tomorrow. S.🙂.

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    2. wishiwereinlondon2 November 2023 at 03:51

      Kate was there because it was a visit aligned with her Early Years campaign. William was conducting an Investiture Ceremony at Windsor Castle.

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    3. I think William was on Investiture duty this week.

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    4. Great engagement highlighting the importance of Dads in bringing up kids and in again pointing out the absolutely vital early years.
      A friend of mine adopted a 3 year old who had been severely neglected as a baby and although they have provided a loving and nurturing home since, the child, now 10, still has personality and mental issues that will probably never go away.
      Kate's outfit looked good and was entirely appropriate for the occasion, as always.
      I am with you in hoping for some gala dresses before the end of the year!

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    5. Dear Trickymum, your friend is so courageous for adopting a previously neglected child!

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    6. I hope people understand while early years are a formative point in a child’s development, it’s not a final phase in that development. Given that the UK just release the news that a million children experienced destitution last year, there’s a profound gap. This is something that it’s important to distinguish. There’s also a big difference also in being born with neurocognitive and/or physical issues than may affect why a child may not reach certain developmental milestones. Given the poor state of healthcare, social services, and education these days, the lack of accessibility to diagnose and treat, the lack of trained professionals in this area, too many children are not well served, even if they are from middle class family. The long wait list to be seen is shame worthy.

      I am careful in the way we as adults label a child as a neglected baby even when they are much older. It’s not a label a child needs to carry or be reminded of through life. The same as when parents labeled their child as a gifted child early on which can become quite burdensome to live up to. This fate is not concrete.

      I think parenthood comes loaded with so much baggage these days. Despite all the research, people still have a tough time allowing children to grow, learn by making mistakes, and evolve without martial and finite judgement. My nan, when she was alive, used to say being neglected wasn’t always a bad thing because it allows children to sort out their own problems as they figure out their relationships with the greater world. I think she was countering all the baby books, videos, blogs that littered our home when we were expecting our first with a dose of common sense. I think her point was knowledge is fine but its application, kindness, making sure daily needs are met and not being too hasty to judge are where the rubber meets the road.

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  3. This was a splendid visit by the Princess. She looks great in her casual gear.

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  4. A very nice visit today highlighting hmm its really good the father ad child bonding together and very important for a child that both parents are there for childrenn being present is a must for them

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  5. Nice event and Kate looks very appropriate. The coat looks one size too big but it may be slightly larger to accommodate more layers or a thicker sweater. A striped sweater is a great classic and I really love the pairing of the modern cut jeans and lug soled boots!

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  6. She later attended George's football match and was happily talking with other parents. They live normal lives most of the time.

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  7. My guess is that this is related to her Early Years initiative, hence why C was there rather than W.

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  8. Nice engagement and a cute outfit. I'm not convinced these are the same jeans she wore the other day. These seem to have a more prominent kick-flare and a darker wash. I'm also not seeing the lighter spots that were showing on her knees/thighs. Who knows though, that could have just been the lighting. Jeans are so hard to identify.

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    1. I agree. They aren't quite long enough. This event was lovely. I think Kate does really well to sort of host/lead this kind of discussion.

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  9. Lovely outing, and the Princess is always in her element around children. She looked terrific, as usual.

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  10. Very nice engagement but tired of seeing her Blue & white striped sweaters!

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  11. Great engagement. I don't think the jeans and boots work well though. I am not sure the pants really fit her because the way the leg bottoms sit loos very differently. The light flare, over ankle cut make the chelsea boots look very chunky. I think her trusted standard of skinny jeans with her chloe boots look way more balanced.
    C.

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  12. dad's are important i lost mine 6 months ago and he made a huge impact on my life. however i know single mom's who have raised their children and they turn out just fine

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  13. Susan in Florida4 November 2023 at 19:13

    I think she wanted to blend in to be approachable , so her clothing choice was perfect for the occasion. It’s about time dads get acknowledged and supported.

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